🌿 Rooted Reset — with Rachel

Reset vs. Restrict: Why One Works and One Backfires

Reset vs. Restrict: Why One Works and One Backfires

It’s January, and everywhere you look, someone’s starting over.

New meal plans.
New gym memberships.
New rules and resolutions.

But let me offer a gentle reframe — one that’s helped me and so many others:
Most “resets” don’t fail because you’re weak.
They fail because they’re not really resets… they’re restrictions in disguise.

✋ Restriction says:

  • “You can’t have that.”
  • “You messed up again.”
  • “Start over Monday.”
  • “Be good this time.”
Restriction is rooted in shame, control, and perfection.
And eventually? It backfires.

You burn out. You rebel. You lose trust in your body.
And maybe worst of all — you stop believing change is even possible.

🌱 Reset says:

  • “Let’s give your body what it needs.”
  • “We’re learning.”
  • “What’s the next best step today?”
  • “Health isn’t punishment — it’s partnership.”
A reset is about supporting your biology, not fighting it.
It’s about lowering the inflammation, stabilizing blood sugar, and nourishing your body — so cravings calm down and energy returns.

It’s about realistic rhythms, not rigid rules.

✨ What I Wish I Knew Earlier:

You don’t need more motivation.
You need momentum — and that starts with biology.

🧠 Healing the root (insulin resistance, stress, poor sleep) makes your habits easier to keep.
💪 Supporting your body makes discipline feel more natural.
🌿 Daily patterns, not willpower, are what shift the needle long term.

📝 This Week’s Insight:

If your health reset has fizzled out before February in the past…
You’re not broken.

You were likely following the wrong framework.
You don’t need to be stricter — you need to be supported.

💡 Try This in Your Life or Work:

Take 5 minutes to reflect:
  • Is the change I’m trying to make rooted in restriction or reset?
  • Am I punishing my body… or partnering with it?
  • What’s one small supportive rhythm I could add in this week?
Need an idea?
✅ Go for a 10-minute walk after dinner
✅ Start your meals with protein + fiber
✅ Dim the lights 1 hour before bed
✅ Give your nervous system a break from noise for 5 minutes

One supportive choice — repeated — builds momentum.

🚀 Want More Support?

If you're ready to try a different kind of reset — one built on nourishment, not deprivation — I’d love to share what helped me feel better than I have in years. Especially after one of the most stressful seasons of my life.
🌿 No pressure. No programs. Just real support.


📥 Or hit reply — and I’ll share exactly what worked for me.

Rooting for you,
Rachel xo

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The Power You Do Have

The Power You Do Have

We can’t always control what’s happening around us.

The diagnosis.
The difficult season.
The stressful job.
The sleepless night.
The to-do list that just won’t end.

But there’s one thing we can control — and it changes everything:

Our response.

Not just in a surface-level, “positive vibes only” kind of way…
But in a deep, grounded, healing way.

When you realize that the way you think, breathe, fuel your body, and move through stress is within your influence — you stop waiting to be rescued.
You start reclaiming your strength.

💡 What This Means for Your Health

Your mindset is not just motivation.

It’s biology.

Chronic stress, negative self-talk, and feeling out of control can literally impact:
  • Blood sugar
  • Sleep quality
  • Hormone balance
  • Inflammation
  • Immune function
But the good news?
You’re not powerless here.
Every time you choose to pause, breathe, nourish your body, or reframe a thought — you're sending a signal to your nervous system that says:
“I’m safe. I’ve got this.”

💬 A Gentle Reminder

Healing doesn’t mean controlling everything.
It means taking ownership of what you can.
And extending compassion for the rest.

When you do that — even little by little — you begin to feel stronger. Calmer. More rooted.

Not because life got easier…
But because you got more aligned.

💡 Try This in Your Life or Work

Take 5 minutes today to shift from “What’s going wrong?” to:
✨ “What’s one thing I can choose today — for my mind, my body, or my spirit?”

It might be a walk.
It might be a nourishing meal.
It might be a moment of stillness before you scroll.
Whatever it is — you chose it. And that matters.

🚀 Want More Support?

✨ I’d love to show you what helped me feel better than I have in years — especially in one of the most stressful seasons of my life. No pressure. No programs. Just real support.

💬 Join our free community for more conversation:
👉 Focus.Fiber.Fasting Facebook Group

📥 Hit reply — and I’ll share exactly what worked for me.

Rooting for you,
Rachel xo

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The Hard Truth About Change — And the Hopeful One

The Hard Truth About Change — And the Hopeful One

Here’s something I’ve learned over and over — both as a nurse, and as a human:

Nothing changes until you decide to change.
Not when you find the perfect plan.
Not when someone else tells you what to do.
Not even when your labs come back and say it’s time.

Change begins when you decide you're ready.
That’s not always an easy thing to hear — but it’s the truth.
And it’s also where your power begins.

💬 A Lesson from Hospice

Working in hospice taught me something I’ll never forget:
Even when we want the best for someone — even when we know what might help —
we can’t do it for them.

People only change when they’re ready.
Not when they’re told.
Not when they’re scared.
When they’re truly ready.

So if you’re reading this and feeling stuck… I want to offer something that most programs won’t: grace.
You don’t have to overhaul everything overnight.
You just have to decide you want a different path — and take one step in that direction.

🎯 What Do You Want 2026 to Feel Like?

Ask yourself honestly:
  • Do I want a repeat of 2025?
  • Or am I ready to make the changes my body’s been asking for?
You don’t need to be perfect.
You just need to be honest — and willing.

💡 Try This in Your Life:

Take 5 minutes today and reflect on these two questions:
  1. What’s one area of my health or life I know needs attention?
  2. What’s one small thing I can start doing this week to support it?
Write them down. Put them where you can see them.
Let this be your reset — not your resolution.

🚀 Want Real Support This Year?

✨ I’d love to show you what helped me feel better than I have in years — and changed my life in ways I never could have imagined.
No pressure. No programs. Just real support.

💬 Join our free community: Focus.Fiber.Fasting Facebook Group

📥 Or reply to this and I’ll share exactly what worked for me.

Here’s to your Rooted Reset — and a year that feels different because you decided it would.

Rooting for you,
Rachel xo
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New Year Reset: Why Resolutions Rarely Last — But Resets Do

New Year Reset: Why Resolutions Rarely Last — But Resets Do

“Ever kept a resolution past February?”
Most of us haven’t. And it’s not because we’re lazy or lack discipline.


It’s because most resolutions rely on willpower — and ignore biology.

We try to overhaul everything at once:
🥦 Eat clean.
🏃‍♀️ Move daily.
📵 Put the phone down.
😴 Sleep more.
📓 Journal, meditate, hydrate…

And by week three? We’re tired. Life gets loud.

So we start to slip — and the all-or-nothing mindset kicks in.

Another year, another failed plan. Cue the shame spiral.

But what if your reset wasn’t about rules or restriction?
What if it started with restoring your body’s biology?

🔬 Biology > Willpower

Most of what derails us isn’t a mindset issue — it’s a metabolic one.

When your body is inflamed, blood sugar is spiking, cortisol is high, and your hormones are out of sync...
Of course you feel tired, scattered, moody, and unmotivated.
That’s not a lack of willpower. That’s a biology problem.

The truth is:
When your cells are nourished…
When your blood sugar is stable…
When your hormones are calm…
💥 Your motivation returns.
💥 Your cravings quiet.
💥 Your body starts working with you — not against you.

🌱 Why Resets Work

Resolutions are rigid. Resets are restorative.

They work with your body — not on top of it.

When I stopped chasing strict rules and started following a natural reset protocol that actually supported my biology… everything changed.
✔️ My energy came back.
✔️ Inflammation calmed down.
✔️ My mood and motivation stabilized.

I didn’t need more hustle — I needed healing.

🕯️ If You’re Craving a Reset

If you’re feeling off track after the holidays — or just off, period — now is the perfect time to begin again.

You don’t have to go all in. You just have to begin.
Small shifts, supported by the right system, lead to real change.

✨ I’m happy to share exactly what helped me reset — naturally.

No pressure. No programs. Just what worked.

💭 This Week’s Reflection:

What would it look like to work with your body this year, not against it?
What if this reset was different?

Want to take the next step?
Reach out to me or join our free support group:
👉 Focus.Fiber.Fasting Facebook Group

This is your year — not to push harder, but to heal deeper.

Happy New Year!

Rooting for you,
Rachel xo
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Christmas Feels Different When You Feel Like Yourself Again

Christmas Feels Different When You Feel Like Yourself Again

This season feels different — and not because of the lights or the snow.

It’s because I feel like myself again. A few years ago, I was dragging my body through December.


Exhausted. 
Inflamed. 
Disconnected. 
Surviving the holidays, not savoring them.

Back then, I didn’t know just how much my daily choices were affecting my energy — or how simple shifts in my food, habits, and mindset could bring me back to life.

✨ But this year?
I'm calmer.
Clearer.
More present.
And more grateful than ever — because I finally know what it means to feel rooted in my body again.

If you’re not there yet, I want you to know something:

It’s possible.
To enjoy the holidays and protect your health.
To make memories without crashing afterward.
To come back home to your body — with gentleness, not guilt.

You don’t need a perfect plan or the “right” motivation.

You just need to start treating your body like a friend worth listening to.

Thank You for Being Here

Whether you’ve been walking with me all year or just subscribed recently — thank you.
I don’t take this lightly.

This newsletter, this space, this rhythm — it’s something I pour my heart into every week.

I hope it’s given you something valuable this year — a perspective shift, a tiny habit idea, or just a reminder that you’re not alone in this healing thing.

🎁 If you need a place to start, re-read one of your favorite Rooted Reset posts.
(Or reply and tell me your biggest “aha” this year — I’d love to hear it.)

And if you need support heading into the New Year, I’ll be right here — rooting for you, one reset at a time.

Wishing you deep peace,
real rest,
and joy that doesn’t require perfection.

Merry Christmas,
Rachel xo
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Meet Rachel

 
Hi, I’m Rachel — a nurse, author, Reiki Master, and holistic health educator.

I’m also a daughter, a mother,  a caregiver, and a woman who believes that healing is possible — at any age, and especially after 50.

After years working in hospice care, I saw what happens when chronic illness is treated with pills instead of root-cause solutions. That experience lit a fire in me — to advocate, educate, and empower women to take their health back naturally.

Today, I help women understand the real cause behind symptoms like fatigue, belly weight, brain fog, and cravings — and how they’re often signs of insulin resistance, not just aging.

Through science-backed protocols, mindset shifts, and deep energetic healing, I guide women back to the vibrant, purposeful life they were always meant to live.

You were never meant to “manage” your way through life.

You were meant to heal, rise, and live rooted in who you truly are.


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