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Are You a Little Like Tilly?

Are You a Little Like Tilly?

This week’s reset moment comes from my duck, Tilly.

It’s been 90 degrees outside, and for two days, a brand-new, bigger pool sat in the backyard — full, ready, and waiting. But did she use it? Nope. Not once.

Instead, she paced. Stared. Stayed dry.

So today, I gave in. I pulled out her old pool, the one she knows. Within minutes, she jumped right in, splashing around like she’d found water for the first time.

And it hit me: how often do we do this too?

We stick with what’s comfortable.
We stay “small.”
Even when something better — bigger, more freeing — is sitting just a few steps away.

Why? Because it’s unfamiliar. Because we’re afraid to try.

Tilly had the opportunity to enjoy something so much better, but she couldn’t get past her comfort zone.

Sound familiar?

We do this all the time.

That new job you haven’t applied for.
The lifestyle change you keep saying you’ll “start Monday.”
The creative dream you haven’t touched because it feels too scary, too big.

But what if… you just tried?

Today, I want to gently challenge you:

Do the thing.

Try the scary new thing you’ve been thinking about.

Maybe it’s a 24-hour fast.
Maybe it’s journaling, moving your body, or finally standing up for yourself.

Because here’s what I’ve learned: growth lives on the other side of the unfamiliar.

I’m not the same person my husband Ed married 32 years ago.
Since then I’ve become a mom, a caregiver, a nurse, an author, a health advocate, and a business owner.
But before all of that — before nursing school at 38 — I was nothing like this.
I didn’t even fly because I was scared.

I used to be like Tilly.

But now? I’m not afraid to dip my toe — or jump headfirst — into the bigger pool.

Because I’ve learned: amazing things are always just beyond the edge of your comfort zone.

If you feel moved, share your story with me.

What’s your “bigger pool” moment?

I’d love to hear it — and cheer you on.

Rachel xoxo

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What Happens When You Finally Listen to Your Body

What Happens When You Finally Listen to Your Body
Your body always knows. The question is: are you listening before it has to scream?

For years, I ignored the signs. The brain fog. The fatigue. The chronic hives and joint pain. I chalked it up to stress, age, hormones — all the usual suspects.

But my body was trying to tell me something deeper.

I was stuck in a loop of caring for everyone else — my patients, my family — while silently falling apart inside. It took me hitting a wall to realize: I couldn’t keep living this way.

What changed everything wasn’t some big overhaul. It was choosing to listen. To slow down. To support my body instead of ignoring it.

Unfortunately there were many years in between, trying to figure out why I was still feeling this way and seeing doctors who often made me feel like I wasn't seen or heard because my labs were "normal."

Four years later, I found a natural protocol with Yerba Maté extract, diverse plant fiber, and intermittent fasting. And within weeks, my body started responding:
  • My blood sugar normalized
  • My cholesterol came back into range
  • My restless leg, leg cramps and inflammation improved
  • My perimenopause symptoms faded - goodbye hot flashes
  • I lost 30 lbs without even trying
But more than the numbers — I felt like me again. Clear, energized, calm.

You don’t need to hit a crisis to start caring for yourself. Your body is already speaking. The Rooted Reset is about finally listening and getting to the root cause.

Take 5 quiet minutes today and ask: What has my body been trying to tell me lately? What have I brushed aside?

Then choose one small way to respond. Maybe it’s resting. Hydrating. Saying no. Moving. Asking for support.

Tiny acts of care create powerful shifts.

If you're ready to  start feeling better — I’d love to show you what worked for me.

No pressure. Just a real conversation about how I got my blood sugar, cholesterol, and symptoms back to balance — naturally, and without any diets or pills.

๐Ÿ’› This is just the beginning. Let’s get to the root of the matter and rebuild from the inside out.

Rachel xoxo

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What I Wish More Women Over 50 Knew About Metabolic Health

What I Wish More Women Over 50 Knew About Metabolic Health

This isn’t about blame. It’s about power.
And the power to change your health? It’s still yours — even now.


Most women I talk to have tried it all:
  • The calorie counting
  • The low-fat diets
  • The walking 10,000 steps a day
  • The supplements, smoothies, and new year resets
And still… the scale barely moves.

The fatigue lingers.

And the labs? “You’re borderline.” “We’ll just watch it.”

Or worse — “This is just what happens with age.”

But here’s what I wish more women over 50 knew:

Your body isn’t broken. Your blood sugar isn’t the enemy.

The real problem is insulin resistance — and no one’s talking about it in a way that feels clear, hopeful, or doable.

๐ŸŒฟ What I Didn’t Know — Until It Was Personal

I spent over 7 years as a hospice nurse. I saw the end stages of illness — and the toll chronic disease takes when the root cause is ignored.

Most of those patients weren’t “just sick.” They were insulin resistant for decades. And no one told them they could change that.

Then, in 2024, my mom had 3 strokes.
We were offered pills — not solutions.

But I couldn’t unsee what I knew.

So I had just dug into the research. I found a plant-based, clinically-backed protocol built on intermittent fasting and two natural supplements, just prior to her strokes. She wanted to get started as soon as she left the hospital.
๐Ÿ“‰ Her A1C dropped from 7.2 to 5.7 in under 3 months.
๐Ÿ“Š Her lipid panel came back better than ever.

โœจ And she started to feel… herself again.

That’s when I knew this message had to get louder.

๐Ÿ’ฌ The Truth That Set Me Free

Here’s what I now believe with everything in me:
  • Most women over 50 are undiagnosed insulin resistant
  • Most doctors are focused on blood sugar, not insulin
  • Most health advice ignores metabolic healing
  • Most symptoms are reversible — with the right system
  • And most importantly: you’re not too late.

โœจ What I’d Tell Every Woman Over 50

If you’re tired of feeling foggy, inflamed, puffy, or powerless — here’s what I want you to know:
  • Fasting isn’t extreme — it’s freedom
  • Fiber isn’t optional — it’s foundational
  • Blood sugar isn’t just a diabetes issue — it’s a hormone issue
  • And insulin resistance isn’t your fault — but it is your signal to reset
You deserve better support. Better energy. Better answers.

That’s why I now teach what I practice: a natural, sustainable reset.

Because we don’t just need to “feel better” — we need to feel great.

๐Ÿ“ฅ Want to learn more?

Grab my free checklist:
“10 Signs It’s Not Just Aging — It’s Insulin Resistance”
๐Ÿ‘‰ [Download it here]

In wellness,
Rachel
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Meet Rachel

 
Hi, I’m Rachel — a nurse, author, Reiki Master, and holistic health educator.

I’m also a daughter, a mother,  a caregiver, and a woman who believes that healing is possible — at any age, and especially after 50.

After years working in hospice care, I saw what happens when chronic illness is treated with pills instead of root-cause solutions. That experience lit a fire in me — to advocate, educate, and empower women to take their health back naturally.

Today, I help women understand the real cause behind symptoms like fatigue, belly weight, brain fog, and cravings — and how they’re often signs of insulin resistance, not just aging.

Through science-backed protocols, mindset shifts, and deep energetic healing, I guide women back to the vibrant, purposeful life they were always meant to live.

You were never meant to “manage” your way through life.

You were meant to heal, rise, and live rooted in who you truly are.


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