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You Don’t Have to Prove You’re Worthy of Rest

You Don’t Have to Prove You’re Worthy of Rest

I got sick recently.
Nothing major — just one of those slow-down-or-your-body-will-make-you kind of sick.
And even though I knew I needed to rest, I still caught myself doing it...


Trying to power through.
Feeling guilty about what I wasn’t doing.
Wondering if I’d “earned” the right to lay down, cancel plans, and do nothing.
Sound familiar?

It hit me like a second wave of symptoms:
Rest is not something we have to earn.
You don’t have to prove you’re worthy of slowing down.

đź§  Why Rest Feels So Hard

For so many of us — especially women — rest feels like a luxury.
We’ve been taught that productivity equals value.
That if we’re not doing, helping, or moving, we’re falling behind.
But the truth is: you are not a machine.
You are a living, breathing human being with a body that heals only when it slows down.
Rest is not laziness. It’s biology.

When we deny ourselves rest, here’s what we’re also denying:
  • Proper immune function
  • Blood sugar regulation
  • Hormonal balance
  • Nervous system recovery
  • Emotional processing
  • And basic dignity
You don’t need to wait until your body breaks down to give it what it’s been asking for.

đź’¬ Who Needs to Hear This?

If you’re in a season where your energy is low, your motivation is scattered, or your body is asking for a break — listen to it.
You don’t need to do one more thing to be “deserving” of rest.
You already are.
Whether you're recovering from an illness, emotional stress, or just burnout from life, this is your permission slip:
✨ You can stop proving. You can just rest.

đź’ˇ Try This for Your Own Reset

Take 5 minutes today and ask yourself:
What would rest look like for me right now?

Then actually do it — even if it’s 10 quiet minutes on the couch, a nap, or canceling something that’s too much.
Sometimes healing doesn’t look like green smoothies and supplements.
Sometimes it looks like lying down and not apologizing for it.

đź“© Want to learn how I support my body gently — especially in seasons of stress or recovery?
Just message me. I’m happy to share the tools that have helped me restore energy, lower inflammation, and heal.

Rachel xoxo

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The Hormonal Shift No One Warned Us About

The Hormonal Shift No One Warned Us About
Let’s talk about something most of us were never prepared for:
As we enter perimenopause and menopause, our hormones don’t just impact mood swings or hot flashes — they also disrupt our metabolism and increase insulin resistance.

Here’s what’s happening behind the scenes:
🩸 Estrogen naturally supports insulin sensitivity.
So when estrogen levels drop, our cells don’t respond to insulin as effectively — making it harder to regulate blood sugar, store fat properly, and feel stable and energized.
At the same time, we often see a rise in cortisol, our main stress hormone.
Whether it’s from work, caregiving, poor sleep, or the emotional changes of this life stage — chronic stress can keep cortisol levels elevated.
And high cortisol? It spikes blood sugar, worsens insulin resistance, and makes weight loss (especially belly fat) feel nearly impossible.

Together, low estrogen and high cortisol create a perfect storm — one that impacts:
  • Weight gain, especially around the midsection
  • Cravings and energy crashes
  • Brain fog and mood dips
  • Disrupted sleep and restless legs
  • Elevated blood sugar and cholesterol
  • A general sense of “off”
We’re told it’s just “aging.”
But it’s not just that.
It’s hormonal — and it’s manageable.

đź’ˇ What You Can Do

You can’t stop the hormonal shifts — but you can reset your body’s response.
By supporting insulin sensitivity and managing cortisol, you can reduce symptoms and feel like yourself again.

Here’s what’s worked for me:
âś… Intermittent Fasting — to give the body time to rebalance hormones
âś… Fiber-first meals — to stabilize blood sugar
âś… Natural supplements — to support insulin and reduce inflammation
âś… Stress reduction — walking, journaling, nature, breathwork
âś… Consistent sleep — no screens, steady rhythms, magnesium if needed
âś… Supportive movement — gentle strength training or walking daily

Because I followed this path, I’ve:
✨ Lost 30 lbs
✨ Lowered my blood sugar and cholesterol
✨ Eliminated hot flashes and restless leg
✨ Gained energy, clarity, and peace with my body again

If you’re navigating this season and feel like your body is fighting you — you’re not alone, and you’re not doing anything wrong.
You just need different tools for a new chapter.

đź“© Want to learn what worked for me? Just send me a message — I’ll walk you through it.

Or if you'd like an Intermittent Fasting Guide for Women (with or without a cycle), let me know — I'll send it to you.

Rachel xoxo



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The Truth About Insulin Resistance (That Your Doctor Might Not Tell You)

The Truth About Insulin Resistance (That Your Doctor Might Not Tell You)

“It’s chronic.”
“It runs in your family.”
“Here’s a pill to manage it.”

That’s what many women hear when they ask about blood sugar, fatigue, or weight gain after 50.

But here’s what I want you to know:
There’s a difference between managing symptoms… and getting to the root.

And insulin resistance is one of the most misunderstood — and most under-addressed — root causes of chronic illness today.

🧬 What Is Insulin Resistance, Really?

Insulin is a hormone that helps your cells absorb glucose (sugar) from your bloodstream.

When your body becomes resistant to insulin, sugar can’t enter your cells easily — so it builds up in your blood.

Over time, this can lead to:
  • Weight gain (especially around the belly)
  • Fatigue and brain fog
  • Cravings, irritability, or mood swings
  • Hormonal shifts
  • High cholesterol, triglycerides, or blood pressure
  • Pre-diabetes and eventually, Type 2 diabetes
But here’s what I wish more women were told:
👉 Insulin resistance doesn’t mean you’re broken.
👉 It doesn’t mean you’ll need medication forever.
👉 And it’s not a life sentence.

🩺 Why Doctors Often Miss It

Most doctors are trained to look at blood sugar (glucose), not insulin.

So if your blood sugar appears “normal,” they may say everything’s fine — even if your insulin is sky-high, silently creating inflammation and imbalance.

You may be told:
  • “It’s just menopause.”
  • “Try to lose some weight.”
  • “This is normal at your age.”
But it’s not normal to feel exhausted, foggy, and stuck in your body.

The real issue? We’ve been taught to treat symptoms instead of asking why they’re happening in the first place.

🔍 What I’ve Learned — and Why I’m Speaking Up

As a nurse and holistic health educator, I’ve spent years watching people suffer from preventable illness — simply because they were never given the whole picture.

Then my own family needed answers.

In July 2024, my mom had three strokes.

She was told to manage it with medications — but we needed more than that. We needed a system to support her body, naturally.

That’s when I found a natural protocol backed by science and powered by nature — using intermittent fasting and plant based supplements.

Within 2½ months, her A1C dropped from 7.2 to 5.7.

Her lipid panel improved. Her energy came back.

And my belief in lifestyle healing was cemented for good.

🌿 What Can You Do?

If this resonates with you, know this:

There are real, sustainable ways to support your body and improve insulin sensitivity — naturally.

Here are 3 gentle shifts you can start today:
  1. Stop snacking constantly — give your insulin time to rest
  2. Add more diverse fiber — it feeds your gut and balances blood sugar
  3. Pause late-night eating — even a 12-hour fast overnight makes a difference
If you’re looking for a clear, simple path — reach out to me if you are interested in learning more about the natural supplement we are using.

đź’¬ Final Thought

You deserve more than symptom management.

You deserve truth, tools, and a path forward.

If you’ve ever felt dismissed, confused, or overwhelmed — you’re not alone.

And you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.

I’m here to help you feel great again — naturally, sustainably, and with the support you’ve been waiting for.

In wellness,
Rachel

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Meet Rachel

 
Hi, I’m Rachel — a nurse, author, Reiki Master, and holistic health educator.

I’m also a daughter, a mother,  a caregiver, and a woman who believes that healing is possible — at any age, and especially after 50.

After years working in hospice care, I saw what happens when chronic illness is treated with pills instead of root-cause solutions. That experience lit a fire in me — to advocate, educate, and empower women to take their health back naturally.

Today, I help women understand the real cause behind symptoms like fatigue, belly weight, brain fog, and cravings — and how they’re often signs of insulin resistance, not just aging.

Through science-backed protocols, mindset shifts, and deep energetic healing, I guide women back to the vibrant, purposeful life they were always meant to live.

You were never meant to “manage” your way through life.

You were meant to heal, rise, and live rooted in who you truly are.


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