We can’t always control what’s happening around us.
The diagnosis.
The difficult season.
The stressful job.
The sleepless night.
The to-do list that just won’t end.
But there’s one thing we can control — and it changes everything:
Our response.
Not just in a surface-level, “positive vibes only” kind of way…
But in a deep, grounded, healing way.
But in a deep, grounded, healing way.
When you realize that the way you think, breathe, fuel your body, and move through stress is within your influence — you stop waiting to be rescued.
You start reclaiming your strength.
💡 What This Means for Your Health
Your mindset is not just motivation.
It’s biology.
Chronic stress, negative self-talk, and feeling out of control can literally impact:
- Blood sugar
- Sleep quality
- Hormone balance
- Inflammation
- Immune function
But the good news?
You’re not powerless here.
You’re not powerless here.
Every time you choose to pause, breathe, nourish your body, or reframe a thought — you're sending a signal to your nervous system that says:
“I’m safe. I’ve got this.”
“I’m safe. I’ve got this.”
💬 A Gentle Reminder
Healing doesn’t mean controlling everything.
It means taking ownership of what you can.
And extending compassion for the rest.
It means taking ownership of what you can.
And extending compassion for the rest.
When you do that — even little by little — you begin to feel stronger. Calmer. More rooted.
Not because life got easier…
But because you got more aligned.
But because you got more aligned.
💡 Try This in Your Life or Work
Take 5 minutes today to shift from “What’s going wrong?” to:
✨ “What’s one thing I can choose today — for my mind, my body, or my spirit?”
It might be a walk.
It might be a nourishing meal.
It might be a moment of stillness before you scroll.
It might be a nourishing meal.
It might be a moment of stillness before you scroll.
Whatever it is — you chose it. And that matters.
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✨ I’d love to show you what helped me feel better than I have in years — especially in one of the most stressful seasons of my life. No pressure. No programs. Just real support.
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Rooting for you,
Rachel xo
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“Ever kept a resolution past February?”
Most of us haven’t. And it’s not because we’re lazy or lack discipline.
It’s because most resolutions rely on willpower — and ignore biology.
We try to overhaul everything at once:
🥦 Eat clean.
🏃♀️ Move daily.
📵 Put the phone down.
😴 Sleep more.
📓 Journal, meditate, hydrate…
🥦 Eat clean.
🏃♀️ Move daily.
📵 Put the phone down.
😴 Sleep more.
📓 Journal, meditate, hydrate…
And by week three? We’re tired. Life gets loud.
So we start to slip — and the all-or-nothing mindset kicks in.
Another year, another failed plan. Cue the shame spiral.
But what if your reset wasn’t about rules or restriction?
What if it started with restoring your body’s biology?
What if it started with restoring your body’s biology?
🔬 Biology > Willpower
Most of what derails us isn’t a mindset issue — it’s a metabolic one.
When your body is inflamed, blood sugar is spiking, cortisol is high, and your hormones are out of sync...
Of course you feel tired, scattered, moody, and unmotivated.
That’s not a lack of willpower. That’s a biology problem.
The truth is:
When your cells are nourished…
When your blood sugar is stable…
When your hormones are calm…
When your cells are nourished…
When your blood sugar is stable…
When your hormones are calm…
💥 Your motivation returns.
💥 Your cravings quiet.
💥 Your body starts working with you — not against you.
💥 Your cravings quiet.
💥 Your body starts working with you — not against you.
🌱 Why Resets Work
Resolutions are rigid. Resets are restorative.
They work with your body — not on top of it.
When I stopped chasing strict rules and started following a natural reset protocol that actually supported my biology… everything changed.
✔️ My energy came back.
✔️ Inflammation calmed down.
✔️ My mood and motivation stabilized.
✔️ My energy came back.
✔️ Inflammation calmed down.
✔️ My mood and motivation stabilized.
I didn’t need more hustle — I needed healing.
🕯️ If You’re Craving a Reset
If you’re feeling off track after the holidays — or just off, period — now is the perfect time to begin again.
You don’t have to go all in. You just have to begin.
Small shifts, supported by the right system, lead to real change.
✨ I’m happy to share exactly what helped me reset — naturally.
No pressure. No programs. Just what worked.
💭 This Week’s Reflection:
What would it look like to work with your body this year, not against it?
What if this reset was different?
What if this reset was different?
Want to take the next step?
Reach out to me or join our free support group:
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This is your year — not to push harder, but to heal deeper.
Happy New Year!
Rooting for you,
Rachel xo
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Protecting Your Peace Isn’t Selfish — It’s Self-Care
Let me guess…
You’re tired. But you keep going.
You feel it in your bones that you need a break. But the list is long. The people are counting on you. The guilt creeps in.
You feel it in your bones that you need a break. But the list is long. The people are counting on you. The guilt creeps in.
So instead of slowing down, you keep pushing.
Because somewhere along the way, we were taught:
- Rest means we’re falling behind
- Saying “no” means we’re letting people down
- Pausing means we’re giving up
But what if the truth is the exact opposite?
🧠 Your Nervous System Needs You to Slow Down
Our bodies are incredible — they’re built to help us adapt, push through, and care for others.
But they’re also designed to rest, regulate, and recover.
But they’re also designed to rest, regulate, and recover.
When we’re stuck in stress — even low-level, background stress — our nervous system stays on high alert. And over time, this affects everything:
- Cortisol stays elevated
- Blood sugar becomes harder to manage
- Sleep gets disrupted
- Hormones shift and symptoms worsen
- Cravings, inflammation, and mood swings creep in
It’s not “just stress.”
It’s the foundation of your health.
It’s the foundation of your health.
🪞We Don’t Have to Earn Rest
I’ve had to learn this lesson many times:
You don’t have to reach your breaking point before you give yourself permission to stop.
You don’t have to reach your breaking point before you give yourself permission to stop.
And I see it in so many of the women I talk to.
They’re not “failing.”
They’re exhausted.
From the pressure.
The invisible expectations.
The caregiving.
The push to always keep going, even when their body whispers, “please… not today.”
They’re not “failing.”
They’re exhausted.
From the pressure.
The invisible expectations.
The caregiving.
The push to always keep going, even when their body whispers, “please… not today.”
If that’s you, you’re not alone.
💡 This Week’s Rooted Reset
Here’s your gentle invitation:
Take 5 minutes and ask yourself:
- Where am I feeling stretched too thin right now?
- What’s one thing I can release, postpone, or soften this week — without guilt?
- What does protecting my peace look like today?
It doesn’t have to be a big change.
It just has to be honest.
It just has to be honest.
Maybe it’s going to bed earlier.
Maybe it’s letting yourself say “not today” to something you usually say yes to.
Maybe it’s giving yourself permission to feel tired without needing to fix it.
Maybe it’s letting yourself say “not today” to something you usually say yes to.
Maybe it’s giving yourself permission to feel tired without needing to fix it.
The pause is part of the progress.
Rest is healing.
And your peace matters.
Rest is healing.
And your peace matters.
📥 Want more tools to support your hormones, stress, and energy — naturally?
I’d love to share what helped me feel better than I have in years — especially in the most overwhelming season of my life.
No pressure. No programs. Just real support.
No pressure. No programs. Just real support.
Hit reply — and I’ll share exactly what worked for me.
Rooting for you,
Rachel xo
Rachel xo
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Ever found yourself...
- Mindlessly snacking late at night?
- Skipping your morning walk (even though you know it makes you feel better)?
- Scrolling instead of sleeping?
- Reaching for sugar or carbs even when you’re “trying to be good”?
Here’s the truth:
That doesn’t make you lazy, weak, or lacking discipline.
It makes you human.
That doesn’t make you lazy, weak, or lacking discipline.
It makes you human.
And what I’ve learned — personally and professionally — is this:
👉 Your habits are talking.
The question is… are you listening?
The question is… are you listening?
🧠 Habits Aren’t Random — They’re Messengers
We often beat ourselves up over behaviors we don’t like.
But what if those behaviors are actually signals?
- Reaching for sugar? Your blood sugar or hormones might be off.
- Too tired to move your body? Maybe your stress and sleep need support first.
- Avoiding routines you once loved? Could be a sign of burnout, grief, or disconnection.
Your body isn’t sabotaging you.
It’s communicating with you — the only way it knows how.
It’s communicating with you — the only way it knows how.
💬 What My Habits Taught Me
There was a season when I couldn’t seem to “get it together.”
No matter how hard I tried, I kept breaking promises to myself — over and over.
No matter how hard I tried, I kept breaking promises to myself — over and over.
It wasn’t until I paused and asked myself why that everything shifted.
I didn’t need another strict plan.
I needed to reconnect with my body.
To hear what she was trying to say beneath the cravings, the fatigue, and the resistance.
I needed to reconnect with my body.
To hear what she was trying to say beneath the cravings, the fatigue, and the resistance.
And what she said was:
“I need care. Not control.”
That was the turning point.
💡 This Week’s Rooted Reset
If this resonates, here are 3 reflection prompts for your journal — or even just a quiet moment with your coffee:
- What’s one habit I keep repeating — and what might it be trying to tell me?
- Am I trying to fix my behavior… or understand it?
- What would a curious, caring response look like today — instead of a critical one?
You don’t need to be perfect.
You just need to stay connected.
You just need to stay connected.
🛠️ One Gentle Step to Try This Week
Pick one habit that’s been frustrating you.
Instead of forcing change, ask:
👉 What’s the need underneath this?
👉 What’s the need underneath this?
Then meet that need in the smallest, kindest way possible.
This is how we build habits that heal — not punish.
📩 Ready to create new rhythms from self-respect — not shame?
You don’t have to figure it out alone.
In the Focus. Fiber. Fasting. community, we help support each other.
You’re always welcome to join us.
And if you ever want to know what helped me feel better (naturally!) — just hit reply. I’m happy to share.
Rooting for you,
Rachel xo
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If you’ve ever said:
“I was doing so well… and then I fell off.”
“I just need to start over… again.”
“Why can’t I stick with it?”
You are not alone.
Most of us have been taught to think of wellness like a 30-day sprint:
✅ Follow the plan
✅ Get the result
✅ Be “fixed”
✅ Follow the plan
✅ Get the result
✅ Be “fixed”
But here’s the truth I’ve learned — both through my own journey and working with women just like you:
👉 Wellness isn’t a quick fix. It’s a relationship.
One that requires honesty.
One that thrives with consistency.
And one that doesn’t fall apart just because you missed a day — or even a whole week.
One that thrives with consistency.
And one that doesn’t fall apart just because you missed a day — or even a whole week.
🔄 The Time I “Started Over” for the 10th Time
There was a season in my life where I kept “starting over.”
Monday after Monday.
Monday after Monday.
Month after month.
New Year after New Year.
Each time I fell off track — with movement, fasting, self-care — I felt like I had failed.
And each time, I came back with more guilt, more shame, and more pressure to do it perfectly.
And each time, I came back with more guilt, more shame, and more pressure to do it perfectly.
But eventually, I realized… I wasn’t failing.
I was learning.
I was learning.
Every time I came back, I was choosing myself again.
And that’s not failure — that’s commitment.
And that’s not failure — that’s commitment.
💬 Small, Imperfect Actions Matter More Than You Think
You don’t need a “perfect” week to be well.
You need a rhythm — something you can return to, not something you have to restart.
You need a rhythm — something you can return to, not something you have to restart.
Think about the relationships that matter most in your life — the ones built on love, grace, and trust.
They aren’t perfect. But they’re strong. Because you show up again and again.
They aren’t perfect. But they’re strong. Because you show up again and again.
That’s the kind of relationship your body needs.
💡 This Week’s Rooted Reset
Here are 3 relationship-based questions to ask yourself today:
- Am I showing up for my body like I would a friend — or like a critic?
- What small act of care can I offer myself today — not as punishment, but as respect?
- When I fall out of rhythm, do I extend grace or guilt to myself?
You don’t have to do it all today.
You just have to keep showing up — with honesty, with care, and with the kind of consistency that grows over time.
You just have to keep showing up — with honesty, with care, and with the kind of consistency that grows over time.
Wellness isn’t about “fixing” yourself.
It’s about building trust — with your body, your needs, and your future.
It’s about building trust — with your body, your needs, and your future.
📩 If you’re feeling like you’ve “fallen off” or lost momentum, I see you.
Let this be your gentle nudge back into rhythm — without shame, and without a reset button.
Let this be your gentle nudge back into rhythm — without shame, and without a reset button.
Need support figuring out what rhythm works for you? Just reply — I’d love to walk beside you.
Rachel xo
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